Make a Good First Impression

Anyone can make a good first impression. Here are the tools you need.

First, you don't have to look like Brad Pitt or Robert Redford to make a good first impression on a woman. Physical good looks aren't the most important thing to a woman. The only reason you're skeptical of that statement is you're a man and to men, a woman's looks are paramount. Stop thinking like a man for a minute and learn what WOMEN are looking at when they meet you for the first time.

ALWAYS look your best.

Take a look at these two photos. The guy on the left might not be George Clooney, but he's clean, nice looking and presentable. The one on the right? Well, he has some work to do.



The guy one the left, we'll call him Jim, is dressed casually. No suit and tie, but a nice shirt is what you would expect to see on the street or at the park. He's probably got on some decent jeans or chinos and respectable shoes. The other guy, Norg, is wearing some kind of sweat suit. Don't. NO SWEAT SUITS!

Jim's hair might be sticking up a bit but it is neatly cut. He looks like he cares. Norg, on the other hand could use a trip to the barber. A word about facial hair is also warranted here. Jim is clean shaven, that's good, but in today's styles there is some latitude for some tasteful facial hair. The stubbly look a la Brett Farve can be appealing to some women. Norg looks like he'll be combing cookie crumbs out of his beard.

2) Dress Like You Mean It

Men have worn jeans for thousands of years (give or take) and have looked good in them. Paul Newman, Marlon Brando, and James Dean have all worn jeans and made women swoon. Then there are the guys in the pictures above.

Let's use jeans as a symbol for all clothes. We've already learned, no sweats. Okay, what about other clothes. You can get away with wearing close to anything as long as it's, this is important, clean, neat, and well fitting.

Don't know what kind of clothes to buy? Look in a magazine. It doesn't have to be GQ. Check out People or US. You can see what looks good and what doesn't. Going shopping? Take a woman, even your sister, to help. Ask a sales lady. Be pleasant and smile, she might not be busy after work.

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Six Tips to Attract Women in a Bar

How can you attract women in a bar when there are 50 other guys around? It's not impossible if you set yourself apart from the rest. Try these six simple actions to make yourself more attractive to women.

1) Smile. Sure it seems simple enough, but look around. When most guys are on a mission to meet women, they are not relaxed and are not smiling. The guys who already have women are the ones smiling, and well they should. When you are "on the hunt" be sure to wear a smile that says, "I'm glad to be here, I'm having fun, and you could have fun too if you were with me." Be friendly. Be approachable.

2) Pay attention to color when you dress. There are colors for every mood and those colors really mean something. Studies have found that women are attracted to men wearing the color blue. Men who frequently wear blue are perceived as faithful, constant, stable. The "blue" guy is a superb candidate for a long-term relationship, someone who is monogamous and dependable.

3) Watch your walk. The way you walk and hold yourself can say a lot more about you than your mouth ever could. When walking, take your time, but not too much. Just be smooth and have nimble movements. Keep you back straight, chest out, shoulders thrown back, and raise your head a little. Have an air of confidence. Just by doing these simple things can instantaneously make you feel better about yourself and attract women to you.

4) Go out to have fun. Never go out just to attract women. Don't focus on it too much. Go out to have fun, and do it for yourself. This way, trying to attract other people will be more natural and less stressful. You'll feel more at ease and the women you talk to will pick up on that. If you pressure yourself to perform, they will sense it.

5) Approach her no matter what. Don't worry about striking out. If you approach, you might win, but if you don't, then you'd have lost already. Most guys are focusing too much on what's going to happen. Be in the moment and focus on her, not on what you want to happen later. Once you've made this first verbal exchange, calm down and just enjoy the chat with her. And you've done more than half the guys there.

6) Encourage her to open up and talk about whatever interests her - careers, hobbies and interests. Ask questions and give her your undivided attention. Let her know that you find her fascinating. Try picking up a couple of books or listen to the latest news, just so that you can also respond to what she is saying. Also, If you are to give them compliments, one good advice is to make it personal, for instance, instead of saying, "those earrings are nice," say something like, "you've got a beautiful smile."

Put these into action and you'll increase your luck trying to attract women. And if you want to know how to approach any woman, anywhere and know exactly What to say to get her to give you her number and go on a date with you right now, check out Guy Gets Girl!

The Magic Word to Get a Girl

There really is a magic word you can use to cause any woman to like you more every time you use it. This special word will generate feelings of affection and warmth when you meet women. Many men don't use this word and there are three reasons they don't. There really is no excuse for not using it, but these are the three reasons:

1. Some men don't know the word. Okay, you can use that excuse one time. Then you risk looking like a fool for not knowing. Learn the word.

2. Sometime men forget the word. It is astonishing how many men will learn the word and promptly forget it. If you remember this word, you will have an opportunity to impress women you haven't seen in years. Just imagine you're walking down the street when you run into an attractive woman you met eight months ago at a friend's party. You say the word and her eyes widen, her entire face lights up with pleasure at the sound of this one word. Do you think a word like that might be worth remembering? Remember the word.

3. They don't have a clue as to the power of the word. This is really the reason many men don't use the word. They actually do know the word but they haven't comprehend the power of using it. It's because they're thinking from their own egocentric point of view. They haven't learned yet what women want. Some men don't realize how much women love to hear them use the magic word. Use the word.

Here's a story that demonstrates the power of the word. An engineer named Steve worked at SAIC in San Diego. Every day he ate lunch in the company lunch room and was served by a dour-faced woman who weighed out the turkey for his sandwich. She put on one lettuce leaf and a few meager potato chips. It was the same everyday and she never smiled.

Then one day Steve got to the front of the line and uttered the magic word. No one else in line ever used it. When the word left his lips, the lunch lady's whole manner changed as if from night to day. Her face lit up like it was Christmas and she forgot to use the scale for the turkey. Steve got three lettuce leaves and his chips overflowed the plate.

You might think the word was "please." It wasn't, though you should always be polite when you meet women or anyone for that matter. No, the word, the magic word that made the day for this woman, was "Esther." Her name was Esther.

The sweetest sound it the world to any woman is the sound of her own name. Her name is the one thing in the world that belongs to her and her alone. It makes her unique in the universe. Learn it, remember it and use it to evoke feelings of openness, affection and just maybe eventually passion in the women you meet.

Now, you might not be wanting to date elderly lunch ladies, but take it from me, the principle works with all women from the cashier to the fashion model. Try it when you meet women. Learn their name, remember it and use it.

How to Fail with the Ladies

Do you sometimes feel like you're beating your head against the wall when it comes to women? Wonder why you're always alone? Read on and see if you're making one of these mistakes.

Here are five things you can do to wreck your chances to meet ladies:

1) Tell her all the reasons she should like you. You, being a man, might see the logic in a reasoning process like this. Sales people do it all the time. Draw a line down a piece of paper and put all the reasons to like you on one side and all the reasons not to like you on the other. Well, guess what. It doesn't work when trying to convince a woman to like you.

She's not operating on reason and logic. For her it's all emotions. The first thing you need to know if you want to know how to meet ladies is that they are operating on a system entirely different from yours. It's PC vs. Mac. Men are logical, women are emotional.

2) Some men who don't know how to meet ladies think it's because they are not good looking enough or too old or too young or not rich enough. They give up before they even begin. But it's not true!

There are some women to whom those things are important, but they are in the minority. To a woman, the most important attractive thing in a man is PERSONALITY. There are certain personality traits that push a woman's buttons in a positive, even a sexual, way. Some men can do it naturally. The good news is that the rest of us can learn to do it. You can learn to use body language and communication skills that will make a woman feel toward you the same way you feel when you see a young, sexy lady.

3) Tell her how you feel about her too early in the relationship. But didn't I just say women are more emotional and all that. Yes, but that doesn't mean they want to hear it from you. Think about it. Here's this really attractive woman. How many guys has she dated? Plenty. And do you know how many of them said they really like her, maybe that they love her. Lots. If you say it you'll sound just like the rest of them.

Stop a moment and compare her to a movie star. Big stars can't even go out in the street without people stopping them and saying "I love you," "You're great," "You're wonderful." Don't you think they get tired of hearing it at some point? Well, so did she.

4) Some men will never know how to meet ladies until they understand women are attracted by things that are very different from what attracts men. Men are attracted by young, nicely shaped, sexy women. When a man sees someone like that there is an instant sexual attraction.

It's different with women. The source of a man's power with women is not his looks. It's in his behavior. If a man does certain things, act certain ways, he will attract women, attractive women, regardless of what he looks like. Don't believe it. Look around and see how many really attractive women are with average looking men. And those men aren't all rich, either.

5) They don't get help in learning how to meet ladies. One of the oldest jokes in the world is that a man will not ask for directions. When putting together a bicycle or a bookshelf he thinks of the instructions only as a last resort. It's no different with dating. In fact, a man is probably more embarrassed to ask for help in this arena than in others. As a result, they keep making wrong turns and trying to fit bolt A into slot 7.



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Where Shall We Do It?

Hey guys! I was out with the girls last night and the subject rolled around to men. Big surprise :) We go to talking about the most unusual places we've made whoopie. A number of different places were mentioned, some I'd like to try someday. Anyhow, among the places mentioned were the beach, airplane restroom, balcony, hotel pool, nature trail, Greyhound bus, elevator and in front of the hotel window! I won't say which of these two were mine.

Now I'm wondering where's the most unusual place you guys have done it. Give me a holler and tell your story. Truth only, no wishful thinking.

By the way, do you recognize Jessica Alba at the beach? Looks like fun!

Get Women With Science

It's science. If you want to pick up girls, there's science to learn from. I'm talking about a branch of science known as Neurolinguistic Programming or NLP. NLP is is defined as the study of the structure of subjective experience and what can be calculated from that and is predicated upon the belief that all behaviour has structure.

Don't worry, I'm not going to get all dry and dull on you. I have studied NLP, however, and have discovered the power of using NLP techniques to influence people and their behavior. That can translate into your power to influence women.



Women are genetically wired to respond in certain ways to particular stimuli. Show a baby to a women and she'll smile and say "awww, how cute." It works almost every time with almost every woman. Throw a mouse in her lap and she'll scream and jump up. Again, it will work with almost any women almost any time.

If you say the right thing to a woman, she'll smile and feel warmly toward you. It will work with almost any woman almost any time. The trick is to know what that right thing is under any given circumstance. That's where NLP comes in. You can use NLP to make a woman have positive feelings toward you. You can use it to influence her behavior. It all boils down to the idea of stimulus and response. Provide the right stimulus and you'll get the desired response. It's like having a magic key that will open the door to your new love.


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Before you've finished reading "Be the Guy Who Gets the Girls" you'll know how to Read her body language and have ultimate power by picking up on what she's thinking but not saying. You'll Appear to read her thoughts simply by glancing in her direction - cluing you into exactly what she's up to!

Certain words and emotional exploits can help give you an edge in the dating game, but when you've learned some of these techniques, you may find women get really horny really quickly and they might be trying to rip off your clothes!

It's all stimulus and response. You know that little rubber hammer in the doctors office? He hits you on the knee and your foot jumps. You can't even stop it from happening. The doctor knows just the right spot to hit your knee.

Now suppose you knew a spot on a woman's body you could touch that would make her all warm and tingly. Imagine the power you'd have if you knew what to say, how to act and where to touch to make women jump into bed with you in a flash!

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