1) Smile. Sure it seems simple enough, but look around. When most guys are on a mission to meet women, they are not relaxed and are not smiling. The guys who already have women are the ones smiling, and well they should. When you are "on the hunt" be sure to wear a smile that says, "I'm glad to be here, I'm having fun, and you could have fun too if you were with me." Be friendly. Be approachable.
2) Pay attention to color when you dress. There are colors for every mood and those colors really mean something. Studies have found that women are attracted to men wearing the color blue. Men who frequently wear blue are perceived as faithful, constant, stable. The "blue" guy is a superb candidate for a long-term relationship, someone who is monogamous and dependable.
3) Watch your walk. The way you walk and hold yourself can say a lot more about you than your mouth ever could. When walking, take your time, but not too much. Just be smooth and have nimble movements. Keep you back straight, chest out, shoulders thrown back, and raise your head a little. Have an air of confidence. Just by doing these simple things can instantaneously make you feel better about yourself and attract women to you.
4) Go out to have fun. Never go out just to attract women. Don't focus on it too much. Go out to have fun, and do it for yourself. This way, trying to attract other people will be more natural and less stressful. You'll feel more at ease and the women you talk to will pick up on that. If you pressure yourself to perform, they will sense it.
5) Approach her no matter what. Don't worry about striking out. If you approach, you might win, but if you don't, then you'd have lost already. Most guys are focusing too much on what's going to happen. Be in the moment and focus on her, not on what you want to happen later. Once you've made this first verbal exchange, calm down and just enjoy the chat with her. And you've done more than half the guys there.
6) Encourage her to open up and talk about whatever interests her - careers, hobbies and interests. Ask questions and give her your undivided attention. Let her know that you find her fascinating. Try picking up a couple of books or listen to the latest news, just so that you can also respond to what she is saying. Also, If you are to give them compliments, one good advice is to make it personal, for instance, instead of saying, "those earrings are nice," say something like, "you've got a beautiful smile."
Put these into action and you'll increase your luck trying to attract women. And if you want to know how to approach any woman, anywhere and know exactly What to say to get her to give you her number and go on a date with you right now, check out Guy Gets Girl!
There really is a magic word you can use to cause any woman to like you more every time you use it. This special word will generate feelings of affection and warmth when you meet women. Many men don't use this word and there are three reasons they don't. There really is no excuse for not using it, but these are the three reasons:
1. Some men don't know the word. Okay, you can use that excuse one time. Then you risk looking like a fool for not knowing. Learn the word.
2. Sometime men forget the word. It is astonishing how many men will learn the word and promptly forget it. If you remember this word, you will have an opportunity to impress women you haven't seen in years. Just imagine you're walking down the street when you run into an attractive woman you met eight months ago at a friend's party. You say the word and her eyes widen, her entire face lights up with pleasure at the sound of this one word. Do you think a word like that might be worth remembering? Remember the word.
3. They don't have a clue as to the power of the word. This is really the reason many men don't use the word. They actually do know the word but they haven't comprehend the power of using it. It's because they're thinking from their own egocentric point of view. They haven't learned yet what women want. Some men don't realize how much women love to hear them use the magic word. Use the word.
Here's a story that demonstrates the power of the word. An engineer named Steve worked at SAIC in San Diego. Every day he ate lunch in the company lunch room and was served by a dour-faced woman who weighed out the turkey for his sandwich. She put on one lettuce leaf and a few meager potato chips. It was the same everyday and she never smiled.
Then one day Steve got to the front of the line and uttered the magic word. No one else in line ever used it. When the word left his lips, the lunch lady's whole manner changed as if from night to day. Her face lit up like it was Christmas and she forgot to use the scale for the turkey. Steve got three lettuce leaves and his chips overflowed the plate.
You might think the word was "please." It wasn't, though you should always be polite when you meet women or anyone for that matter. No, the word, the magic word that made the day for this woman, was "Esther." Her name was Esther.
The sweetest sound it the world to any woman is the sound of her own name. Her name is the one thing in the world that belongs to her and her alone. It makes her unique in the universe. Learn it, remember it and use it to evoke feelings of openness, affection and just maybe eventually passion in the women you meet.
Now, you might not be wanting to date elderly lunch ladies, but take it from me, the principle works with all women from the cashier to the fashion model. Try it when you meet women. Learn their name, remember it and use it.
