Bill Wants his Girlfriend Back

Bill was all broken up when Karen told him she needed her "space". Karen said that she still cared for him but didn’t want to date exclusively any more.

How can Bill get back together with ex Karen? Should he call her and text him? Show up at the Christmas party and flirt with her friends? Ignore her completely?

No, no and no. Instead, he should listen to her.

She says that he loves him but that he needs space. This sounds like a cliché, but the truth is that sometimes when people use this line they mean it.

There are times when a relationship just gets ahead of a person. They are not ready for things to be moving so quickly. That doesn’t necessarily mean that they don’t love their ex. In fact, they might just be overwhelmed and want to take a step back.

Let's assume this is the case and take a look at the devastating things that can happen if you handle the situation badly.

For instance, if Bill were to endlessly pursue Karen with phone calls, emails and texts, he wouldn’t be giving her the space she needed to get think things out. Letters, gifts, and singing songs under her window late at night would be equally bad, not to mention pathetic.

One of bill's friends suggested that he start flirting with all of Karen’s friends to make her jealous. This is a common misconception because it is assums that women will want what other women have. The problem is that by playing games now, Bill would be jeopardizing his relationship in the future. What would probably happen is that Karen would just be angry at Bill and push him even further away.

Another option Bill considered was just ignoring her altogether. This is understandable because Bill was so hurt by Karen’s rejection, he wanted to punish her in turn.

Now, if he is open and receptive but not pushy when they meet in social situations that are not contrived, he'll show Karen what a wonderful man and wonderful human being he is. He becomes someone that she wants to spend time with. She has had a chance to see him at his best.

Bill has a number of options if he wants to get back together with Karen. His best option is simply to listen to her. She’s said she needs space. Then Bill should give it to her. He should let Karen have the opportunity to decide whether to get back together.

I think in the end Karen will come back to Bill and she’ll be ready to take the relationship to the next level. If Bill plays his cards right, their relationship will be stronger than ever.

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